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8 Sex Tips For Men With Small Penises
8 Sex Tips For Men With Small Penises
For men with not-so-large penises, getting naked in front of your partner might be a little intimidating.
And as much as we hear how size doesn't matter, men with small penises may have a harder time feeling confident in their skin.
"There are some people who have a preferred size range and some people prefer a smaller penis," says Sheri Winston, a sex educator based in Kingston, N.Y. and author of Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure.
"But it doesn't make a difference to most people."
Having a small penis doesn't mean you're less likely to orgasm or less likely to make your partner climax as well.
Below, Winston gives us eight sex tips for men with smaller penises, and what partners can do to make them feel more comfortable.
Talk to your partner: Communication is key and if you feel insecure about your body parts, always let your partner know.
"A great way to start this difficult conversation is to say, 'This is really hard for me to talk about,'" Winston says. "Start by telling the truth and tell them how you're feeling anxious."
And as the other partner, be understanding: Remember, this isn't an easy subject to talk about and your response shouldn't be humourous.
"The way your partner responds is a good indicator of how they feel," Winston says.
As the partner on the receiving end of the news, ensure your man you don't care and want to have sex anyway.
Try other methods of reaching the big O: Sex doesn't always have to be about vaginal or anal sex. For men with smaller penises, oral sex and hand jobs are one way to get the penis going, Winston says.
"If we're really looking for great pleasure and connection, this may be the best way to get it."
Size really doesn't matter: There are people who prefer size range, Winston says, but most men and women don't care.
"Don't get hung up on size in the first place. Even if you are with someone with a preferred size range, they are not necessarily attached," she says.
Some men and women like small penises and for heterosexual couples, remember, the vagina is elastic and can expand — so stop worrying.
"Size isn't as important as it's made out to be in porn."
"If you're a man and you're having heterosexual sex and she's not having orgasms from it, it's because most women are not having it through just intercourse."
Try stimulating the clitoris instead.
Open up: When it comes to intercourse, men with smaller penises have an easier time getting in (whichever way they want to get in) when men and women open up their legs, Winston says.
"Positions of the pelvis tilted up and legs wide open are going to be the best positions to get deeper."
For anal sex, it's better if the receiving partner is kneeling with their butt up in the air. And if they are lying down (with their legs open) put a pillow under their butt to angle the penis up.
Some positions are better than others in general: Winston recommends this position for men with smaller packages:
For the vagina or anus, the penis owner lays on their side and the receiving partner slides themselves into the penis instead.
Oh, and slow down! This isn't a race.
"Porn is always so vigorous, which can be great, but some people aren't exploring the easier and slower methods of sex."
Take things slow, talk about how you feel and get more intimate.
Why Friend Breakups Suck So Much Worse Than Romantic Ones
Why Friend Breakups Suck So Much Worse Than Romantic Ones
She was the “Best" to your "Friends" but lately she's been more foe than anything. And so begins the lonely path of grieving the loss of a friendship. When a romantic relationship ends, friends are there to support you with hours of analysis, ice cream, rom-coms, and a new Tinder profile, but the end of a friendship doesn't garner the same hoopla, according to Meredith Silversmith, a licensed therapist in New York. Which is lame, because parting ways with a close friend hurts way worse than splitting from some bozo. Here, Silversmith explains why it’s (much) harder to go through a breakup with your BFF.
1. You don’t enter into a friendship expecting it to end.
When you begin dating someone new, it’s always in the back of your mind that it may not work out, but when you’re building a friendship, that’s not on your radar. Call it BFF blindsiding, but the end of a friendship feels more jarring because you never saw it coming.
2. You are your truest self with them.
With a friendship, you tend to show more of your true self sooner — sweatpants from day one. That makes you much more vulnerable: Your friends really know you from the beginning, so if it ends, it’s more of a blow to the ego.
3. You get closer with a friend more quickly.
You make lasting memories in romantic relationships too, of course, but it tends to happen more quickly in a friendship. When you’re dating, there are more boundaries and a more gradual buildup of closeness and intensity. So it feels like you’ve lost more when you lose a friend; those shared experiences just go poof.
4. You merge worlds with them.
You’re introducing them to family or other friends a lot sooner because, again, there is not that boundary. No one thinks, Oh, what does it mean if she meets my parents? So friends are around a bigger part of your world from the beginning, and when you’re close to the important people in her life, it feels like you’ve lost more than just one friend.
5. They know everything.
Friends are the people you confide in about the tough stuff, so losing that confidant feels jarring. Plus, it’s unsettling to know there is someone you’re not close to anymore who knows everything about you. Time to call your other friends (and ice cream and pizza) to the rescue.
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Why do we let our elderly die of broken hearts? by Michele Hanson
Why do we let our elderly die of broken hearts?
by Michele Hanson
‘There is a loneliness epidemic affecting 1.2 million older people in England, so why on earth split up the ones who do have a beloved partner to live with?’ Photograph: mediaphotos/Getty Images/iStockphoto
Some encouraging news for a change. A senior family judge, Sir James Munby, has stated it is inhuman to separate elderly couples who have spent decades together, and stick them in different care homes. I hope social services pay attention because, as he points out, people really do die “from what we colloquially call a broken heart”. But will councils stop this wretched carry-on at once? I suspect not, because more than a decade ago they were warned that they might be in breach of the Human Rights Act by forcing elderly married couples to live apart, and here they are, still at it. Sometimes you can’t even have your dog to stay, never mind your spouse. It’s usually to do with money, but one double hotel room is always cheaper than two singles, so why not in care homes?
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There seems to be a general stinginess towards older people, as if we’ve had our turn, we’re on the way out, we’re a bit dim and useless, so why bother providing us with anything but the bare necessities? I have long banged on about the rubbish food provided in many care homes, particularly the large chains, but has it made a smidgin of difference? No, it has not. Perhaps they think our tastebuds die out, along with our sight, hearing and capacity and need for love. As there is a “loneliness epidemic affecting 1.2 million older people in England”, why on earth split up the ones who do have a beloved partner to live with? Perhaps councils should learn from animal sanctuaries. Did you hear of the rescued goat who stopped eating for days and almost pegged out when separated from his companion of 10 years, a donkey? Luckily the rescuers understood the problem, reunited them and Mr Goat perked up at once. And what about the elderly wombat rescued on the verge of death, wrapped up warmly and cuddled back to life? If chums, cuddles and affection are vital for goats, donkeys and wombats, why not for elderly humans? We need all that, too. Please, councils, obey the judge. Starting now.
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Some encouraging news for a change. A senior family judge, Sir James Munby, has stated it is inhuman to separate elderly couples who have spent decades together, and stick them in different care homes. I hope social services pay attention because, as he points out, people really do die “from what we colloquially call a broken heart”. But will councils stop this wretched carry-on at once? I suspect not, because more than a decade ago they were warned that they might be in breach of the Human Rights Act by forcing elderly married couples to live apart, and here they are, still at it. Sometimes you can’t even have your dog to stay, never mind your spouse. It’s usually to do with money, but one double hotel room is always cheaper than two singles, so why not in care homes?
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There seems to be a general stinginess towards older people, as if we’ve had our turn, we’re on the way out, we’re a bit dim and useless, so why bother providing us with anything but the bare necessities? I have long banged on about the rubbish food provided in many care homes, particularly the large chains, but has it made a smidgin of difference? No, it has not. Perhaps they think our tastebuds die out, along with our sight, hearing and capacity and need for love. As there is a “loneliness epidemic affecting 1.2 million older people in England”, why on earth split up the ones who do have a beloved partner to live with? Perhaps councils should learn from animal sanctuaries. Did you hear of the rescued goat who stopped eating for days and almost pegged out when separated from his companion of 10 years, a donkey? Luckily the rescuers understood the problem, reunited them and Mr Goat perked up at once. And what about the elderly wombat rescued on the verge of death, wrapped up warmly and cuddled back to life? If chums, cuddles and affection are vital for goats, donkeys and wombats, why not for elderly humans? We need all that, too. Please, councils, obey the judge. Starting now.
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10 Reasons To Never Get a "Facial"
10 Reasons To Never Get a "Facial"
Like literally any other sex thing, there's nothing necessarily demeaning or bad or demoralizing about a "facial" (AKA when a guy ejaculates on a partner's face) if it's something both parties are equally interested in. But also like literally any other sex thing, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do — and that includes letting a rain shower of warm semen fall unto the only face you're given in this life! You can just say no, full-stop. But if you're feeling creative, here are 10 extremely good and rational explanations to provide to anyone who wants to ejaculate on your face when you're just not in the mood for that.
1. You aren't wearing waterproof mascara and also aren't trying to have raccoon eyes. You weren't planning on going for a swim or having a cry today so you just applied normal mascara! A downpour of semen isn't in your personal forecast!2. Also, eye herpes exists. There's nothing shameful about having herpes, but is contracting an STI in your eyeball on your to-do list? It cannot possibly be. And just like all the other types of herpes, ocular herpes can't be fully cured — a doctor can only treat the symptoms. Consider this a strong case to avoid facials or at least put goggles on first.
3. What if it washes your sunscreen off and you get a slight burn? Because you're smart and savvy, you obviously wear some sort of SPF every day to avoid soaking up too many hazardous rays. You can't very well risk losing your sun protection just for a few moments of sexual pleasure! An orgasm lasts only moments but sun damage lasts a lifetime.
4. You JUST washed your face and over-washing can be so drying :(. If only he'd asked just a few minutes earlier!!! Too bad, so sad, no facial to be had.
5. Alternatively: You JUST used the last of your night cream. Unless his semen has moisturizing properties that allow it to be bottled and sold for $80 a tub in Sephora, it just doesn't make economical sense to trade your night cream for his night cream (if you catch my DRIFT).
6. You tweezed your eyebrows before coming to bed and they're a little sore at the moment. I'm not exactly sure what sort of ~healing properties~ semen could possibly have, but I doubt it serves as an ointment for your bright red brow bones.
7. Semen could ruin your rigorous moisturizing routine. Despite a beauty blogger swearing by the magical effects of semen facials (LITERAL facials, not the sex act) to ease her rosacea, dermatologist Doris Day warns that semen can actually dry skin and make rosacea more pronounced. Not to deny anyone their sexual pleasure but is ejaculating on someone's face *really* worth exacerbating a dry skin disorder? (No, no it isn't.)
8. There are countless other places on which to deposit semen. Look I'm not a mathematician, but I'm pretty sure a person's face only accounts for, like, .01 percent of the entire rest of the body. What if you kindly suggested your partner ejaculates literally anywhere else? A fun compromise that pleases everyone may be your chest (it's a thing, and it's called a pearl necklace).
9. You're on day two of your blowout and really don't want to wash your hair just yet. The best way to justify spending $50 to have someone else blow dry your hair is making that expensive blow dry last for as long as humanly possible. If you're considering becoming a human bat and sleeping hanging upside-down from the ceiling to preserve your hairstyle, does this guy *really* think you'd run the risk of some semen dripping into your hair? No-sir-ee.
10. Honestly you're just not into the idea of letting a dude spill his junk on the window to your soul. Semen isn't gross, and letting someone come on your face (if that's something you're interested in) isn't inherently demeaning. But, like any and all sex things, you shouldn't let a guy ejaculate on your face unless you legitimately think you'd enjoy it, also. There are so many surfaces and crevices available for men to insert their semen into, your shining face doesn't have to be one of those surfaces!
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17 Sex Facts That Will Make You Laugh, Gasp (Not In A Good Way) And Possibly Vomit #NSFW
17 Sex Facts That Will Make You Laugh, Gasp (Not In A Good Way) And Possibly Vomit #NSFW
Let’s talk about sex, baby - the good, the bad and the plain ugly. Actually, there isn’t a lot of good in there.
From ferret sex to semen ink, you’ll soon see what we mean.
And... if anyone spies you reading this article from over your shoulder, just say you are revising for a pub quiz.
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Here are 17 sex facts you’ll wish you never heard...
1. One in ten European babies is conceived in an IKEA bed.
2. Alfred Kinsey, author of Sexual Behavior in the Human Male (1948), had a collection of 5 million wasps and could insert a toothbrush into his penis, bristle-end first.
3. British spies stopped using semen as invisible ink because it began to smell if it wasn’t fresh.
4. A single sperm contains 37.5 MB of DNA information. One ejaculation represents a data transfer of 15,875 GB, equivalent to the combined capacity of 62 MacBook Pro laptops.
5. Male fruitflies rejected by females drink significantly more alcohol than those that have had a successful encounter.
6. A female ferret will die if she doesn’t have sex for a year.
7. Seven Viagra tablets are sold every second.
8. The German for “contraceptive” is Schwangerschaftsverhütungsmittel. By the time you’ve finished saying it, it’s too late.
9. The American Psychiatric Association listed homosexuality as a mental illness until 1973.
10. The best-selling work of fiction of the 15th century was “The Tale of the Two Lovers,” an erotic novel by the man who later became Pope Pius II.
11. A single human male produces enough sperm in two weeks to impregnate every fertile woman on the planet.
12. In 2008, archaeologists in Cyprus found a 7th-century curse inscribed on a lead tablet that said, “May your penis hurt when you make love.” Nobody knows who made the curse, or why.
14. Gymnophoria is the sense that someone is mentally undressing you.
15. A female chimpanzee in a fit of passion has the strength of six men.
16. At the 2012 London Olympics, which lasted for 17 days, the athletes were provided with 150,000 free condoms- approximately 15 each.
17. The “G-spot” was nearly called the Whipple Tickle- after Professor Beverley Whipple, who coined the expression that we know today.
List was originally published on HuffPost Books and taken from “1,227 Quite Interesting Facts” [W.W. Norton, $15.95], a collection of difficult to believe yet entirely true miscellanea, assembled by the creators of quiz show “QI.”
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Sperm Keeps You Young and 49 Other Crazy Sex Facts You Need to Know
Sperm Keeps You Young and 49 Other Crazy Sex Facts You Need to Know
Are you a sexpert? Test your knowledge with these off-the-wall X-rated facts
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We always knew that sex ed in middle school didn't teach us everything (or even close to it, let's be honest) — but after reading all these crazy facts, we think that class needs a complete overhaul. From the art of the female orgasm to STIs and condoms, here are 50 sexual truths that will fascinate and entertain you.
How many of these did you actually know?
1. We automatically perceive people who smell good as more attractive.
2. Ginger stimulates the feelings of excitement associated with sex. Eating ginger elevates your heart rate, gets your blood flowing and gets you excited for the night ahead.
3. A study found that men feel more emotional pain after a breakup than women do.
4. It's official: This study shows that men and women cannot be just friends.
5. Some people consider sperm to be an anti-aging treatment, as it has a tightening effect on the skin.
6. Sleep-deprived men are more likely to believe women want to have sex with them. This is not a joke.
7. People who are into kinkier sex may be psychologically healthier.
8. Endorphins released during sexual activity create a euphoria similar to opioid drug use.
9. Some people experience the same feeling of arousal when thinking about food as when having sex.
10. After ovulation, a female's egg is fertile for 24 to 48 hours, and a man's sperm can live 48 hours inside the female body. Do the math, and be careful. There have been documented cases of live sperm discovered eight days after sex.
11. Twelve per cent of adults have had sex at work.
12. You can't say happiness without saying penis. (You're welcome.)
13. Only 57 percent of women orgasm while having sex with a partner.
14. The Kama Sutra lists 30 types of kisses. How many have you tried?
15. A study found that good sex triggers the region of the brain associated with falling in love.
16. Men who have sex at least twice a week can almost halve their risk of heart disease, according to a 2010 study.
17. Still have that condom from a while back? Toss it! The average shelf life of a latex condom is about two years.
18. It's a good idea to keep your own condoms, since you don't know how long your partner's been holding on to his. Condoms kept in wallets for over a month are more likely to break.
19. There are five to seven calories in a teaspoon of semen.
20. One orgasm a day may decrease a man's risk for prostate cancer.
21. There are some foods that boost your sex drive, one of them being black raspberries. This phytochemical-rich food enhances both libido and endurance. Oysters are high in zinc, which is vital for testosterone production and healthy sperm. Watermelon contains citrulline amino acid, good for the cardiovascular system and to help relax the blood vessels that increase your sex drive.
22. The average vagina is 3 to 4 inches long but can expand by 200 per cent when sexually aroused.
24. Sex is 10 times more effective than Valium.
24. Shaving your pubic area increases your chances of spreading an STI.
25. Yeah, they're called STIs (sexually transmitted infections) now instead of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).
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