Best sex positions: The Top 40
It can be easy to let things slide in the bedroom when you've been with the same person for a long time.
Every couple has their favourite tried and tested sex positions which work for them, but every now and again it's fun to mix things up a little and try something new.
That's where our ranking of the top 40 sex positions of all time comes in. These positions have been voted for by you, real people, so we can guarantee they'll actually work.
Trying a new sex position isn't just for that exciting honeymoon period, anyone can rekindle the spark with their long-term partner by trying something new. You don't have to be super flexible or wildly adventurous either - we have ideas for anyone to try!
We know it can be daunting so we've broken down each one for you to explain exactly how you can reenact it in the comfort of your own bed (or outside of it!) We've also highlighted the turn ons and turn offs of each position so you can make sure you find the right one for you. Want deeper penetration or more clitoral stimulation? Our jargon-free explanations will help you select the sex position that will answer all your needs.
Testing sex positions is a fun way to bond with your partner and you don't have to take them too seriously. You may fall over, you may not look glamorous at all times but that's half the fun! You could even set yourself a challenge to work through all 40!
Click through to see our expert breakdown of the 40 best sex positions - which one will you try?
The Sultry Saddle
If you want to try something new, sideways sex is a great place to start!
How does it work?
He lies down with his knees bent and legs apart, and you sort of slot in the middle at right angles to his body. With one hand on his chest, and the other on his lower leg, rock back and forth until he's hitting the right spot.
The turn ons
It's all about you and you can wiggle around until it feels just right.
The turn offs
It might take a bit of practice to get it right, but hey, who's complaining?
Difficulty rating 2/5
It can take a while to get the positioning just right.
Fun rating 3/5
If the trickiness doesn't slow down your fun - it's a winner!
You say: 'Excellent position. You have to try it'
The Squat
Great for...
You. Gives you the most amazing sensation.
How does it work?
Quite simply, he lies on the bed and you squat on top of him. Yup, that's it. Then you raise yourself up and down on him, leaning on the bed, his hands or his chest.
The turn-ons
This will stimulate you in ways you never thought possible.
The turn-offs
You look pretty stupid and you have keep your balance and make sure you don't tip forward - that could be rather painful for him.
You say: 'This position rocks - my boyfriend loves it too'
Face to face
Great for...
Slow, relaxing sex
How does it work?
You basically sit opposite each other and then you slide into his lap and sit on top of him. You then join your legs behind him and he put his feet together to provide a kind of cradle for you. You then just rock on him.
The turn-ons
This often produces a simultaneous orgasm, as you both build up together to climax.
The turn-offs
It may be a bit tame and slow for some people.
You say: 'My partner and I tried this in the bath'
Standing up
Great for...
Hitting your G-spot
How does it work?
You turn to face the wall, stand around two feet away and stick your bum out a little. He then enters you. Possibly bending his knees to make it easier for access.
The turn-ons:
You get to thrust backwards using the wall and it's a whole lot easier than doing it standing up face-to-face
The turn-offs:
You've got to stand up... which in itself is possibly a turn-off, as it involves more effort than normal
The Scissors
Great for... Intimate sex
How does it work? Easy to do, complicated to explain. So you lie facing each other and put your top leg over his hip. He grabs your bum and then you out your arm round his waist and push your bottom leg against his leg.
The turn-ons
You'll be rubbing your clitoral area on his groin and you get to kiss each other.
The turn-offs
A little boring and pedestrian for some.
You say: 'It's not visually exciting but physically it's amazing'
The Spider
Great for...
Long slow intercourse
How does it work?
Start with her sitting facing and astride him. The the woman lies back, followed by the man until each partner's head in between the other's legs. Then each partner can bring their knees up and hold onto the other's legs. Now all you need to do is slow, wiggling movements to keep each other aroused for a long time.
The turn-ons
This is a very lazy, enjoyable position that can keep you happy for a long time
The turn-offs
There's not a lot of action and movement, which could be boring for some
Woman on top
Great for...
Both of you
How does it work?
Get the man to lay down on the bed with his legs out in front of him. Now climb on top like a cowgirl and let him penetrate you. You can then lean back and hold onto his ankles or knees if he lifts them up. You can now control the pace now and also tease him.
The turn-ons
He'll love it, because the view is great and you should like it because you're in charge
The turn-offs
You have to do all the work. Also, some women find that the deep penetration can hurt if their partner is quite large.
Add a sex toy: Use a vibrating cock ring in this position to heighten the sensation.
Speed bump
Great for...
Fast and passionate sex
How does it work?
You lie out flat on your stomach with a cushion under your belly and pelvic area. He lies on top of you, you spread your legs and he enters you, you'll be orgasming for England before you know it!
The turn ons
It's a great position for a quickie as things can get quite fast and furious.
The turn offs
The skin-to-skin contact can mean you get a bit on the sweaty side, and it's not the most romantic of positions.
Difficulty rating: 2/5
You just lie down with your face in the pillow - he goes for it
Fun rating: 2/5
Your man will probably enjoy it a bit more than you, but worth a go all the same!
You say: 'It's the easiest way to reach orgasm'
Great for:
You - he gets to play with you in all the right places.
How does it work?
No beds needed for this one - you can try it anywhere in the house, although you might want to be near a wall for balance. Stand in front of him and get yourself into a position where it's easy for him to enter you from behind (you might need to bend forward to start with) and then slowly straighten up, ensuring his penis stays in you.If you find it awkward, then you can stay leaning forwards, in which case he can still hold onto you.Then when you're both ready, he can start thrusting - there's not a whole lot you need to do except lean back and enjoy yourself!
The turn-ons:
If you tend to achieve a better orgasm from multiple areas of stimulation then this one is for you as he can rub your breasts and clitoris at the same time.
The turn-offs:
Keeping your balance
Difficulty rating: 2/5
Nice 'n' easy unless you're completely different heights.
Fun rating: 4/5
Perfect for those moments when you want to have sex right now
You say: 'This is really good in the bath or shower'
Edge of Heaven
Great for...
Female orgasm
How does it work?
The man sits on the edge of the bed, with his legs down on the floor. Then you shuffle into his lap and onto him, with your legs resting on the bed, while he either holds your hands to stop you tipping backwards. Now you can start moving as fast or as slowly as you want.
The turn-ons:
You get very deep penetration and he gets to do most of the work, while you jiggle about on top.
The turn-offs:
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